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By John Ewen

The sound of high heels clopping along Fairfield Way on Saturday was sure to grab attention. Not because of the footwear, but because of the people donning it.

Male students at the University of Connecticut took to the sidewalks in pink and white high heels to raise awareness for gender relations and sexual violence against women.

The event was called Walk a Mile in Her Shoes, sponsored by UConn’s Undergraduate Student Government.

“Walk a Mile in Her Shoes is trying to bring the whole community together to fight sexual assault,” event coordinator Alexandra Hughes said. “Sexual assault [events are usually] by women for women, so we’re trying to get men involved and do it in a lighthearted way.” Hughes said the event’s planners reached out to various student groups and cultural centers across campus in hopes of getting a diverse turnout.

The Facebook page for the event had over 200 RSVP’s, but Hughes said she was realistically expecting between 100 and 150 participants. Members of UConn’s ROTC made up a large portion of the event’s attendees.

Walk a Mile in Her Shoes was initially created in 2001, and has since grown to the worldwide level it has. Saturday’s walk in Storrs was one of 14 Walk a Mile in Her Shoes events scheduled for the day, with locations including California, North Dakota, and Alaska.

Shirts given out at the event read "I walk to ______", with participants given the option to fill in the blank. (Photo: John Ewen)

Shirts given out at the event read “I walk to ______”, with participants given the option to fill in the blank. (Photo by John Ewen)

Those who participated in the walk were given t-shirts that read “I Walk To _______,” with markers nearby so participants could finish the sentence. Amongst the responses were “To Support The Cause”, “To Promote Equality” and “To Take a Stand.”

Before the mile-long walk through Fairfield Way began, UConn Professor Dr. Gina Barreca took to the Spring Weekend stage and addressed the crowd.

“Thank you all for being here, whether you’re in your flats, as I am, or whether you’re in your heels,” Barreca said. “Some of you are already complaining, ‘This hurts.’ One man over there said ‘Can we crawl?’ You haven’t been in these for 15 minutes yet!”

Dr. Gina Barreca spoke to the attendees before they began their walk in high heels down Fairfield Way. (Photo: John Ewen)

Dr. Gina Barreca spoke to the attendees before they began their walk in high heels down Fairfield Way. (Photo by John Ewen)

Dr. Barreca, deemed “a feminist humor maven” by Ms. Magazine, has discussed gender issues on Oprah, Dr. Phil, CNN, and many other outlets, as well as writing multiple books on the subjects.

“This is what women do to themselves to make us look good, as if you’re looking at our feet, which is also part of the problem,” Barreca said about the heels the male participants wore. Barreca cited a test in which women asked men on a street to fill out a form, where women wearing heels got more men to respond to the form as well as answer positively throughout, while the women wearing flats received a lower response rate. Barreca also told the crowd her experiences of attending school at the male-heavy Dartmouth College.

“By the last year I was there when they came up and said ‘Why should we allow women into our schools? When our grandfathers went here there were no women.’ I said, ‘When your grandfathers went here, there were no indoor lights. Things get better.”

Barreca said the event addressed important issues in a playful manner and hopes that it facilitates conversation about touchy subjects.

“The walking a mile in her shoes is obviously a metaphor. It gives you a sense of literally putting yourself in someone else’s shoes. It’s funny, it’s interesting, you’ll say ‘I’m never going to do this

again, why do women do this?’ And if you start to think why do women do this…It’ll change the way you look at things, if only a little bit. We start change from the ground up. Today, you are starting change from the ground up, although you’re a little higher off the ground than you usually are.”

After the speech from Barreca and a performance by the all-female acapella group The Chordials, the attendants began their march down Fairfield Way, eventually making their way to Hillside Road and ending the walk where it began.

“It seemed like some of [the men in heels] were in pain, but they were all happy to be there, supporting a good cause,” sophomore Adam Kuegler said. He participated in the walk, albeit in his standard shoes. “I think it will raise awareness not only because they’re literally in women’s shoes, but also it has a metaphorical meaning to it as well.

Event coordinator Devon Shirk echoed similar thoughts.

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As the walk began, the front of the group carried the Walk a Mile in Her Shoes banner. (Photo by John Ewen)

“I think it went pretty well, we had a good turnout,” she said. “We had a lot more guys than most probably would have expected, and they all kept their heels on for the event so it’s exactly what we wanted.”

At the end of the day, the goal of the event was clear: to help foster an environment where gender issues can be openly discussed.

“I’m hoping that it just starts dialogue about this kind of thing,” Hughes said. “Usually it’s something that’s kind of like shrouded in tension and people are afraid to talk about it, so I’m just hoping it starts the conversation and lets us move forward.”

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